INDIVISIBLE. ~ PROMISE CHIKA WONODI.
During the 2nd World War (1939-1945), the United States dropped two Atomic Bombs over the Japanese cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, on the 6th and 9th of August, 1945 respectively
The first World's Atomic Bomb 💥 was dropped by a B-29 American Bomber over Hiroshima and the explosion annihilated over 90% of the city, instantly killing over 90,000 people and subsequently over 146,000 people died
Three days later, another B-29 dropped another Atomic Bomb on Nagasaki, instantly killing over 40,000 people and subsequently over 80,000 people died as a result of the depletion of the Atomic components and Nuclear Radiation; as in both cases
As a result of the devastating effect of these two Bombs,
Six days later, the Japanese Emperor; Hirohito announced his country's unconditional surrender
In a radio address on the 15th of August, 1945
Need I mention here,
That the entire world has not recovered from the cruel and
Devastating effects of these Atomic Bombs till date
An Atom is the smallest Indivisible particle of a chemical substance or element
While an Atomic Weapon, also known as Nuclear Weapon
Is an explosive device that derives its destructive force from Nuclear Reactions,
Either fission Bomb or a combination of fission and fusion (thermonuclear weapon)
Simply put, an Atomic Weapon is a weapon of mass destruction,
Whose destructive effect is still felt long after the explosion 💥 💥 💥
As a result of the depletion of its Nuclear/Atomic components
In the unseen realm, the day you got married,
You and your spouse metamorphosed into a Greater One - One Flesh!
This is the only place where 1 ➕ 1 (👥) = 👤✅
And you were welded together by the Invincible Hands of God
Into an Indivisible Union
Just like an Atom and an Atomic Weapon
If you're cohabiting with someone that is not your husband or wife,
I hope you know I'm not talking to you
'Marriage wey dem no pay Bride Price
Not to talk of exchanging Marital Vows,
That one na Marriage?!' 😂😂😂
So, it's never complicated and you know it
You're either married or not - it's that simple!
If you're married, you're Indivisible
But if you're not married, you're very divisible!
What God has not joined together,
Let no Man/Woman put together
It doesn't matter how long you've been in a wrong or toxic relationship,
As long as God has not joined you together,
It's not a crime to disengage or 'unjoin' yourselves
Who you choose to Marry is one of the most powerful and important decisions
You'll ever make on Earth
In fact, who you choose to Marry reveals
The depth of your Wisdom or Foolishness
Because once you've made your Choice
That Choice begins to Make or Mar you
It propels the course of your life either upward or downward
And it's similarity can only be compared to
The difference between Heaven and Hell
When the purpose of a thing is not known
Abuse is inevitable!
All that brouhaha about Dating, Engagement and Courtship
Is targeted at achieving, not just a Beautiful Wedding 💒
But a Beautiful Marriage
50% of your success or failure in Marriage
Is determined by what you know and do before Marriage
And most importantly, who you choose to Marry
While the other 50% is determined by What you do with who you Married
Nobody prepares to fail from the beginning right?
So, choose wisely!
There are numerous benefits of having a Nuclear/Atomic Force, such as:
Defense and a great advancement in the creation of Eco-friendly Power, Energy and Technology
As long as it is not detonated
Subsequently, as a Married Couple
You have become an Atomic Force
With so much power at your disposal
To keep at bay and conquer every Force and opposition that comes up against you
As a couple, you have what it takes
To create Eco-Friendly Relationships (Power), Energy and Technology
That would make our world a better place for all
But once you drop the Atomic Bomb of Divorce 💧💥
It becomes the most dangerous Lethal Weapon of Mass Destruction
Like what happened in Hiroshima and Nagasaki
What used to be beautiful becomes very ugly
Great love becomes extreme hatred
In fact, the World never recovers from a single drop 💧 of Divorce 💥
Just as you cannot Divide (Separate into parts, groups and sections) a human being
Without killing Him/Her
And causing untold hardship, pain and sorrow
To all the people that are a part of that life
Including those that depended on, admired and looked up to that life
Especially, Children
That's how devastating it is
Every time you break or try to break your Atomic Force as a couple 👫
Some children from broken homes never recover - for life!
Every time you Divorce or break a Marriage - people die!
And so many others continue to die
In a geometric progression
Beginning from the couple 👫
Down to all the people connected to that Family 👪 💥
In the form of Emotional Deaths, Death of Relationships, Career Deaths, Financial Deaths and of course, Physical Deaths
No matter how hard you try to divide the
Assets, Liabilities and Responsibilities in a Divorce
You'll always realize that you're Indivisible
No matter how well a Fish can swim
It will never survive and excel on sand
No matter how strong and powerful an Eagle is in the sky
It will never survive in water
Everything finds its purpose and fulfilment from its source
Marriage is not a creation of Hollywood, Bollywood or Nollywood
It's not a creation of Culture, Religion, Tradition or Science
Marriage is God's Idea and can only survive, excel and thrive in God
Note, an Atom is made up of three basic components
Protons, Electrons and Neutrons
And 99.94% of its mass are always in the Nucleus; at the centre
The Electrons have a negative electric charge
The Protons have a positive electric charge, while the Neutrons have no electric charge
As long as the Electrons and Protons are equal,
The Atom remains electrically neutral
But if the Atom has fewer or more Protons than Electrons
Then the Atom will have a negative or positive electric charge, respectively
You and your spouse represent the Protons and Electrons
While The Word of God (The Bible) represents the Neutrons
As long as you keep yourselves balanced with the Word of God
And stay with God at the Centre; in the Nucleus
You'll never have a Divorce
No matter how bad your situation may seem right now
Never drop your Atomic Force!
Think about the very many lives
You'll be destroying, especially yours!
If you're truly Married,
Then you have what it takes to make it right
Please, let down your pride and hold up your Home
Saying 'I'm sorry!' doesn't mean you're right or wrong
It simply says 'I value my Relationship'
Never sleep on an Offense!
Deal with them promptly and drop them
Stay with God and use His Word
Family is everything!
Having a beautiful family is the most beautiful thing in the whole World
If you're still single, use your 50% wisely
Prepare yourself for who you're looking/waiting for
Before you proceed to Marriage,
Please ensure you're compatible: Emotionally, Psychologically and Intellectually
Never stop learning
Never stop growing
There's a dimension of success you may never attain until you're married
But you must have a Mental Picture of your preferred Family
With a Made-Up-Mind to Walk-The-Talk
And build your 'Home' like an Edifice
Consistently Communicating your Commitment and Care to yourselves daily!
Always remember that you're Indivisible
And the Marriage Institution was originally designed by God to last forever!
